When is bad behavior ok?
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GinAndBareIt
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When is bad behavior ok?
Question: you are at a holiday party- quite a bit of alcohol is involved- there is a showing of body parts (by more than a couple of people) - no touching of them- just showing- is this ok?
Like what happens at a holiday party, stays at a holiday party?
Does anyone care if this happens? Do they think less of you if they've now seen more of you?
Like what happens at a holiday party, stays at a holiday party?
Does anyone care if this happens? Do they think less of you if they've now seen more of you?
GinAndBareIt- Posts : 146
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
This is a tough one...I mean, if everyone was involved in the nakedness, it shouldn't be a big deal, right? Personally, I wouldn't think less of anyone...and depending on what they were flashing, I might even think more. Honestly, I don't think anything should be read too deeply, especially if alcohol was involved. Shit happens.
And, I'm ALWAYS of the notion that what happens wherever, stays wherever.
And, I'm ALWAYS of the notion that what happens wherever, stays wherever.
RunawayTrain- Posts : 123
Join date : 2007-12-21
Location : 9000 Easy Street, Coolsville Ohio
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
I agree, should not be a big deal- but you never know. Some people seem to hold others to a different set of standards than they themselves follow.
GinAndBareIt- Posts : 146
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
I don't deem a "little nakedness" as a bad thing. It is basically a normal party occurance for the kind of parties I attend. The people who don't show anything are the odd ones in my opinion. Are they embarassed of what they have?
sluttygirl- Posts : 33
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
I personally don't really understand the need to show anyone that is not a significant other your assets- but I guess to each his (or her) own...
Just an FYI- I'm not judging anyone - just telling you my opinion.
Just an FYI- I'm not judging anyone - just telling you my opinion.
LonelyGirl- Posts : 60
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
Gin, sounds like you’re the only one calling it “bad behavior”.
Rufus- Posts : 12
Join date : 2007-12-21
Age : 87
Location : Germantown, Philadelphia
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
Rufus, you didnt really answer. Whats your take on the original question?
sluttygirl- Posts : 33
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
I didnt necessarily mean it was bad I guess. It is not "good behavior" but I guess it is also not bad. Plus- what guy hasn't already seen girl "assets"? They are not that exciting!
GinAndBareIt- Posts : 146
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
Question: you are at a holiday party- quite a bit of alcohol is involved- there is a showing of body parts (by more than a couple of people) - no touching of them- just showing- is this ok?
YES
Like what happens at a holiday party, stays at a holiday party?
YES
Does anyone care if this happens?
This could go one of two ways... YES they care, becuase they want to see it or NO, beucase they've seen or done the same.
Do they think less of you if they've now seen more of you?
NO especially if your audience is tight with you – I personally don’t drink with any other kind of group. People got to be able to roll with it.
YES
Like what happens at a holiday party, stays at a holiday party?
YES
Does anyone care if this happens?
This could go one of two ways... YES they care, becuase they want to see it or NO, beucase they've seen or done the same.
Do they think less of you if they've now seen more of you?
NO especially if your audience is tight with you – I personally don’t drink with any other kind of group. People got to be able to roll with it.
Rufus- Posts : 12
Join date : 2007-12-21
Age : 87
Location : Germantown, Philadelphia
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
Ok, I like those answers. They work for me. Thank you
GinAndBareIt- Posts : 146
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
I think I love Rufus...
RunawayTrain- Posts : 123
Join date : 2007-12-21
Location : 9000 Easy Street, Coolsville Ohio
Re: When is bad behavior ok?
Rufus does give good advice!
GinAndBareIt- Posts : 146
Join date : 2007-12-21
The Magic 8 Ball says...
GinAndBareIt wrote:Question: you are at a holiday party- quite a bit of alcohol is involved- there is a showing of body parts (by more than a couple of people) - no touching of them- just showing- is this ok? "My sources say no."
Like what happens at a holiday party, stays at a holiday party? "Most likely."
Does anyone care if this happens? "Concentrate and ask again."
Does anyone care if this happens? "It is decidely so."
Do they think less of you if they've now seen more of you? "Very doubtful."
AskTheMagic8Ball- Posts : 34
Join date : 2007-12-29
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