I loathe him.

At what point do you decide enough is enough? How do you know that it's time to walk away? Do you stay in a situation for every other reason except love?

I want out.
I want to live.
I do not want to be defined by his standards anymore.

I wish I knew the answer to this one. I have been with people I began to hate and I do feel thats a good time to leave. When looking at them makes you feel physically ill and you can't bare to touch them or be close to them- its a pretty good indication that things arent good

I on the other hand- dont hate mine- i sometimes wish I did- it would make it easier. I like him just fine- but there is no romance or excitement- not to mention- other things- so when do I leave? Or do I stay and grow old this way?

Maybe we need to ask the 8 Ball????

Dear Magic 8 Ball, do you stay in a situation for every other reason except love?

Response: "Reply hazy, try again later"

It's later: "Concentrate and ask again."

After concentrating: "You may rely on it"

Now, what the f' does that mean? That makes no sense.

(Ever notice, when the Magic 8 Ball doesn't give the answer that you want, the response to that is: 'That makes no sense.')

I say stay if the sex is good and leave if it is not. When you are old and past the having sex age- thats another story.