What makes for good sex?
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sluttygirl
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What makes for good sex?
Just curious as to what others define as good sex.
GinAndBareIt- Posts : 146
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: What makes for good sex?
I'd say anyone that wants to have it is good.
LonelyGirl- Posts : 60
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: What makes for good sex?
Good sex? One thing I think is important for a good sex partnership is oral sex. I say this because it is a less selfish thing- you have to want to please the other person to do this and caring about your partner being happy makes for good sex.
sluttygirl- Posts : 33
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: What makes for good sex?
oooooohhhh...I LIKE this question...
Let's see, I think good sex is about passion and adventure. Personally, I also like to be able to laugh and have fun during sex. I mean, sex is basically up/down/in/out, but if you can maintain the spark and excitement, it becomes even more fun. It is also important that all parties involved are good kissers. There is nothing more personal that a person's mouth and knowing how to use the tongue is crucial. Let's face it, some are gifted and some aren't...
And, if a boy is a good kisser, then fabulous oral sex is a given.
Also, no limitations. Sex should be a no-holds-barred situation...and you should be open to trying new things. You just never know what you may enjoy if you don't try it a few times.
Let's see, I think good sex is about passion and adventure. Personally, I also like to be able to laugh and have fun during sex. I mean, sex is basically up/down/in/out, but if you can maintain the spark and excitement, it becomes even more fun. It is also important that all parties involved are good kissers. There is nothing more personal that a person's mouth and knowing how to use the tongue is crucial. Let's face it, some are gifted and some aren't...
And, if a boy is a good kisser, then fabulous oral sex is a given.
Also, no limitations. Sex should be a no-holds-barred situation...and you should be open to trying new things. You just never know what you may enjoy if you don't try it a few times.
RunawayTrain- Posts : 123
Join date : 2007-12-21
Location : 9000 Easy Street, Coolsville Ohio
Re: What makes for good sex?
Runaway- I dont think I am quite as open to things as you are.
My idea of wild is a little tame I think in comparison. I do like someone that is comfortable to be with though. There seems to be a big difference between one who tries weird things because they think it is cool and one who is open minded and just fun. Is this what you mean?
I did date a guy once and he tried so hard to be "whatever" that it was like having sex with a gymnast doing a routine- and not fun!
The one I would call the best was just attentive and easy to be with. That to me made for the best sex partner.He was ok with somewhat unusual things- sex in strange places- etc- but not freaky or overwild. I never felt anything but totally comfortable with him.
My idea of wild is a little tame I think in comparison. I do like someone that is comfortable to be with though. There seems to be a big difference between one who tries weird things because they think it is cool and one who is open minded and just fun. Is this what you mean?
I did date a guy once and he tried so hard to be "whatever" that it was like having sex with a gymnast doing a routine- and not fun!
The one I would call the best was just attentive and easy to be with. That to me made for the best sex partner.He was ok with somewhat unusual things- sex in strange places- etc- but not freaky or overwild. I never felt anything but totally comfortable with him.
MissBehav'n- Posts : 36
Join date : 2007-12-23
Re: What makes for good sex?
Okay, perhaps I should have said...try new things within your comfort zone??? LOL...I don't know though...that might be what makes people 'stuck' in a boring sex rut. I haven't had an orgasm with the man I'm married to in YEARS for this very reason..and now it's at the point where I'm just bored with him in general.
RunawayTrain- Posts : 123
Join date : 2007-12-21
Location : 9000 Easy Street, Coolsville Ohio
Re: What makes for good sex?
Unselfish partners are probably the key. If they care about your pleasure- they will probably be good- even if they are not that adventurous.
MissBehav'n- Posts : 36
Join date : 2007-12-23
Re: What makes for good sex?
A great partner who knows how to please in every way.
Everyone is different in terms of what makes them have an orgasm, so not all responses will apply to everyone.
Everyone is different in terms of what makes them have an orgasm, so not all responses will apply to everyone.
MsConduct- Posts : 2
Join date : 2008-01-17
Location : Jupiter
Re: What makes for good sex?
Do you think chemistry is more important than technique? or vice-versa? Or not...
MissBehav'n- Posts : 36
Join date : 2007-12-23
Re: What makes for good sex?
I think they go hand-in-hand...but you're lucky if a boy possesses both. I've had chemistry with people only to find that they are a BIG DUD in the sack.
Unfortunately, God gave them tongues but he didn't teach them how to use them...
Unfortunately, God gave them tongues but he didn't teach them how to use them...
RunawayTrain- Posts : 123
Join date : 2007-12-21
Location : 9000 Easy Street, Coolsville Ohio
Re: What makes for good sex?
Very sad when a tongue is wasted....
Cinderella- Posts : 27
Join date : 2008-03-05
Re: What makes for good sex?
How do you think a guy learns to do THAT??? Imagine how it must be for him the first time...lol
Wonder if they have a school for "it" and need practice girls...anyone want to volunteer w/ me?
Wonder if they have a school for "it" and need practice girls...anyone want to volunteer w/ me?
MissBehav'n- Posts : 36
Join date : 2007-12-23
Re: What makes for good sex?
Me Me ME! Although if some whacked out dud came near me at the practice sessions I might not be able to handle it.
I'm not sure how boys (or some girls, for that matter) learn to do that. I assume it's just like girls giving oral sex to a boy...you just do it and get better along the way as you go. I look at oral sex as an opportunity to ALWAYS improve. And, though I think I'm pretty good at it, and have not had ANY complaints, I always strive to do better and change things up.
I will say one thing, I think anatomy has a lot to do with it...and it is a little more complicated for a boy if he doesn't understand what's going on with a girl "downstairs." SO, for the boys out there, let me throw this one piece of advice out there...
AVOID THE HOLE. FIND THE CLIT.
Thank you and good night.
I'm not sure how boys (or some girls, for that matter) learn to do that. I assume it's just like girls giving oral sex to a boy...you just do it and get better along the way as you go. I look at oral sex as an opportunity to ALWAYS improve. And, though I think I'm pretty good at it, and have not had ANY complaints, I always strive to do better and change things up.
I will say one thing, I think anatomy has a lot to do with it...and it is a little more complicated for a boy if he doesn't understand what's going on with a girl "downstairs." SO, for the boys out there, let me throw this one piece of advice out there...
AVOID THE HOLE. FIND THE CLIT.
Thank you and good night.
RunawayTrain- Posts : 123
Join date : 2007-12-21
Location : 9000 Easy Street, Coolsville Ohio
Re: What makes for good sex?
In this case...I would rather be a girl learning about aboy- then vice versa
Seems very challenging for them. It is for a girl to give aBJ too at first...but I imagine the guys are easier to please and easier to read-you know if it is working.
Seems very challenging for them. It is for a girl to give aBJ too at first...but I imagine the guys are easier to please and easier to read-you know if it is working.
Cinderella- Posts : 27
Join date : 2008-03-05
Re: What makes for good sex?
Gee...oral sex...what is that??
LonelyGirl- Posts : 60
Join date : 2007-12-21
Re: What makes for good sex?
Awwwww...poor LG. I do wish I could help you find some lovin'.
As the resident Runaway Train, I feel a one-way ticket to girls night coming right up...
(and I'm not even going to care if the husband doesn't like it)
As the resident Runaway Train, I feel a one-way ticket to girls night coming right up...
(and I'm not even going to care if the husband doesn't like it)
RunawayTrain- Posts : 123
Join date : 2007-12-21
Location : 9000 Easy Street, Coolsville Ohio
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