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What makes for good sex?

Post  GinAndBareIt on Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:00 am

Just curious as to what others define as good sex.
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  LonelyGirl on Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:03 am

I'd say anyone that wants to have it is good. lol!
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Post  sluttygirl on Wed Jan 16, 2008 12:16 am

Good sex? One thing I think is important for a good sex partnership is oral sex. I say this because it is a less selfish thing- you have to want to please the other person to do this and caring about your partner being happy makes for good sex.
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  RunawayTrain on Wed Jan 16, 2008 3:48 pm

oooooohhhh...I LIKE this question...

Let's see, I think good sex is about passion and adventure. Personally, I also like to be able to laugh and have fun during sex. I mean, sex is basically up/down/in/out, but if you can maintain the spark and excitement, it becomes even more fun. It is also important that all parties involved are good kissers. There is nothing more personal that a person's mouth and knowing how to use the tongue is crucial. Let's face it, some are gifted and some aren't...

And, if a boy is a good kisser, then fabulous oral sex is a given.

Also, no limitations. Sex should be a no-holds-barred situation...and you should be open to trying new things. You just never know what you may enjoy if you don't try it a few times. Shocked
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  MissBehav'n on Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:19 am

Runaway- I dont think I am quite as open to things as you are. lol!
My idea of wild is a little tame I think in comparison. I do like someone that is comfortable to be with though. There seems to be a big difference between one who tries weird things because they think it is cool and one who is open minded and just fun. Is this what you mean?

I did date a guy once and he tried so hard to be "whatever" that it was like having sex with a gymnast doing a routine- and not fun!

The one I would call the best was just attentive and easy to be with. That to me made for the best sex partner.He was ok with somewhat unusual things- sex in strange places- etc- but not freaky or overwild. I never felt anything but totally comfortable with him.
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Post  RunawayTrain on Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:28 am

Okay, perhaps I should have said...try new things within your comfort zone??? LOL...I don't know though...that might be what makes people 'stuck' in a boring sex rut. I haven't had an orgasm with the man I'm married to in YEARS for this very reason..and now it's at the point where I'm just bored with him in general. silent
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  MissBehav'n on Thu Jan 17, 2008 12:30 am

Unselfish partners are probably the key. If they care about your pleasure- they will probably be good- even if they are not that adventurous.
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  MsConduct on Thu Jan 17, 2008 11:11 pm

A great partner who knows how to please in every way.

Everyone is different in terms of what makes them have an orgasm, so not all responses will apply to everyone.

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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  MissBehav'n on Thu Feb 21, 2008 1:48 am

Do you think chemistry is more important than technique? or vice-versa? Or not...
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  RunawayTrain on Fri Feb 22, 2008 3:37 pm

I think they go hand-in-hand...but you're lucky if a boy possesses both. I've had chemistry with people only to find that they are a BIG DUD in the sack.

Unfortunately, God gave them tongues but he didn't teach them how to use them...
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  Cinderella on Thu Mar 06, 2008 2:49 am

Very sad when a tongue is wasted.... No
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  MissBehav'n on Fri Mar 07, 2008 2:08 am

How do you think a guy learns to do THAT??? Imagine how it must be for him the first time...lol
Wonder if they have a school for "it" and need practice girls...anyone want to volunteer w/ me?
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  RunawayTrain on Tue Mar 11, 2008 10:19 am

Me Me ME! Although if some whacked out dud came near me at the practice sessions I might not be able to handle it.

I'm not sure how boys (or some girls, for that matter) learn to do that. I assume it's just like girls giving oral sex to a boy...you just do it and get better along the way as you go. I look at oral sex as an opportunity to ALWAYS improve. And, though I think I'm pretty good at it, and have not had ANY complaints, I always strive to do better and change things up.

I will say one thing, I think anatomy has a lot to do with it...and it is a little more complicated for a boy if he doesn't understand what's going on with a girl "downstairs." SO, for the boys out there, let me throw this one piece of advice out there...

AVOID THE HOLE. FIND THE CLIT.

Thank you and good night. Wink
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  Cinderella on Tue Mar 11, 2008 11:24 pm

In this case...I would rather be a girl learning about aboy- then vice versa

Seems very challenging for them. It is for a girl to give aBJ too at first...but I imagine the guys are easier to please and easier to read-you know if it is working. Cool
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  LonelyGirl on Wed Mar 12, 2008 11:22 pm

Gee...oral sex...what is that?? Sad
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Re: What makes for good sex?

Post  RunawayTrain on Thu Mar 13, 2008 8:49 pm

Awwwww...poor LG. I do wish I could help you find some lovin'.

As the resident Runaway Train, I feel a one-way ticket to girls night coming right up...

(and I'm not even going to care if the husband doesn't like it)
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