Epiphany

I just had one. I thought I always picked the wrong guys because I never had better ones to choose from. I just now realized that is not the case. The simple fact is when I strectch my memory beyond the obvious, I remember the chances I had to make what was probably a better choice than I made. I had a chance with men that were more right for me, yet I went the other way. I didn't realize I was doing this until now. Makes me realize how much I am responsible for my circumstances. It is easier to think it was not my fault, just fate- but also nice to see I did have a choice and maybe if I can learn from my mistakes, I can make a better choice should I get an option again.