When is bad behavior ok?

Question: you are at a holiday party- quite a bit of alcohol is involved- there is a showing of body parts (by more than a couple of people) - no touching of them- just showing- is this ok?

Like what happens at a holiday party, stays at a holiday party?

Does anyone care if this happens? Do they think less of you if they've now seen more of you?

This is a tough one...I mean, if everyone was involved in the nakedness, it shouldn't be a big deal, right? Personally, I wouldn't think less of anyone...and depending on what they were flashing, I might even think more. Honestly, I don't think anything should be read too deeply, especially if alcohol was involved. Shit happens.

And, I'm ALWAYS of the notion that what happens wherever, stays wherever.

I agree, should not be a big deal- but you never know. Some people seem to hold others to a different set of standards than they themselves follow.

I don't deem a "little nakedness" as a bad thing. It is basically a normal party occurance for the kind of parties I attend. The people who don't show anything are the odd ones in my opinion. Are they embarassed of what they have?

I personally don't really understand the need to show anyone that is not a significant other your assets- but I guess to each his (or her) own...

Just an FYI- I'm not judging anyone - just telling you my opinion.

Gin, sounds like you’re the only one calling it “bad behavior”.

Rufus, you didnt really answer. Whats your take on the original question?

I didnt necessarily mean it was bad I guess. It is not "good behavior" but I guess it is also not bad. Plus- what guy hasn't already seen girl "assets"? They are not that exciting!

Question: you are at a holiday party- quite a bit of alcohol is involved- there is a showing of body parts (by more than a couple of people) - no touching of them- just showing- is this ok?

YES

Like what happens at a holiday party, stays at a holiday party?

YES

Does anyone care if this happens?

This could go one of two ways... YES they care, becuase they want to see it or NO, beucase they've seen or done the same.

Do they think less of you if they've now seen more of you?

NO especially if your audience is tight with you – I personally don’t drink with any other kind of group. People got to be able to roll with it.

Ok, I like those answers. They work for me. Thank you

I think I love Rufus...

Rufus does give good advice!