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Is a larger areola preferred? I have a natural 36D chest and I think my nipples are too small in relation to the rest of the breast. Was considering tattooing the area for the appearance of larger nips. Is this something I should waste my money on? Am I insane to be so concerned? Does it really matter?

Truly a waste of money. I am SURE they are fine...and there is no need for you to worry! Plus...do you think men care? I seriously doubt it. Its all in the attitude anyway;)

I think they DO care. I mean, I think they at least notice.

It may not be as important as other things, but definitely something that is recognized.

They do not...only you care. I absolutely would say they would NEVER notice if you didnt bring it to their attention...and even then there is nothing to "notice" that isnt right. This is truly silly...I promise!

You REALLY think so. All I can picture is them pointing and snickering:

"Nipple malfunction...aisle 3"


I will eventually get over this...I think.

Too funny. It is NOT, and I repeat NOT, a problem!
Shelf this one and move on to the next issue.

Take it from me, they won't notice if you are doing things correctly

I'm with Slutty...NEXT!

Nipples are the metaphoric “cherry” atop a sundae. Has anyone ever sent back a sundae because of the cherry?

Okay, okay...so I should leave this whole nipple thing alone. Isn't it always about how we perceive ourselves though?

Love that Rufus!! I agree totally.

In my experience men DO care. My boyfriend's best friend was talking about this the other day. Though, I wouldn't worry about it because, just like everything else, it's a matter of preference.

I also think you should try to look at the positive. My friend was diagnosed with breast cancer and had her breast (and nipples) removed. Before this happened she was worried, like you, about her nose and breast size and thought about getting surgery. Now she's simply happy to be alive. All women do this to themselves. I'm sure you're nipples are great.

Perspective is an amazing thing.
if a man does care about this...how fast can you get away from him? Not fast enough!
I keep hoping men feel this way about an extra 10 (or 15 pounds)

I do believe that those that are shallow enough to care about some of the small things will be nothing but trouble in the end.

On the other hand- I very much believe its how we carry or present ourselves that really makes the difference. Everyone has flaws of some sort. Its the overall that matters.

I don't think it's wrong for a guy to have a preference in what a woman's nipples look like. I do think that it can be considered shallow if he would ONLY date a girl who looked a certain way, but we all have preferences...hair color, size, style. It is natural to be attracted to one thing over another. I agree, though, that I wouldn't date a guy who used something so trivial as the deciding factor.