http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/feed/? Latest topics Sun, 02 Aug 2009 04:13:24 GMT 10 http://illiweb.com/fa/prosilver/site_logo.gif http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/feed/? http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/so-hard-to-make-the-right-decisions-t68.htm Cinderella So I am back in the dating game. It has its fun days and its less fun day. Today is a confusing one. I had planned to write a lot about it- but i think I am tired...maybe I will fill this in tomorrow...until then all I can say is...how the hell am I supposed to figure this out and get it right? Where is that damn rulebook!!!!!!!!!! Is this Love? Sun, 02 Aug 2009 04:13:24 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/so-hard-to-make-the-right-decisions-t68.htm#531 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/so-hard-to-make-the-right-decisions-t68.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/bad-dates-f5/hmmmi-ve-had-a-few-t9.htm LonelyGirl They all start out very hopeful...amazing how bad some of them can get. I think my worst excuse for having to get home was that my iguana was sick...the funny thing is...he really was sick...but I couldnt come up with anything any better than this...maybe the date was just that bad! Bad Dates Fri, 21 Dec 2007 05:28:43 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/bad-dates-f5/hmmmi-ve-had-a-few-t9.htm#10 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/bad-dates-f5/hmmmi-ve-had-a-few-t9.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/soooo-t67.htm Cinderella
Answers anyone??]]> Just Need to Vent... Sat, 27 Jun 2009 04:31:31 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/soooo-t67.htm#530 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/soooo-t67.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/no-good-answer-t66.htm Jane Doe So I just realized I am in a no win situation. I was with a guy who I broke up with. We have remained friends. He wants more. I am just happy in limbo. It will take a long time for me to trust he has changed- though he seems to- si I wont jump right back into things as they are- no matter how good it seems. He wants more and now- or at least soon. Though I dealt with his shit for years- I know he will grow tired of waiting on me in a matter of months. He will look elsewhere and find another. ... I Need Advice... Fri, 26 Jun 2009 05:37:41 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/no-good-answer-t66.htm#529 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/no-good-answer-t66.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/men-are-warped-t65.htm GinAndBareIt Now I know not all men...but those that are- sure are warped. I had one the other night actually call me three weekes after we had stopped seeing each other to tell me what things he thought were wrong with me (and mind you- I never mentioned a few GLARING issues he had- as in serious- commercial worthy issues)- and after going thru that- he actually asked if he could see me again and when I laughed he said I was being mean to him! Now go f&%^ing figure that one out...lol Just Need to Vent... Thu, 11 Jun 2009 02:54:15 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/men-are-warped-t65.htm#528 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/men-are-warped-t65.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/ask-the-magic-8-ball-t18.htm sluttygirl I figured it ought to have its own section! I Need Advice... Sun, 30 Dec 2007 01:51:21 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/ask-the-magic-8-ball-t18.htm#77 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/ask-the-magic-8-ball-t18.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/dating-t64.htm GinAndBareIt So- I have finally done it. I have taken the plunge into singledom...its exciting and scary at the same time! on one hand I now feel that I can be ready to meet the right person- but on the other hand I realize I might also end up alone. I mean I know we can all find "someone" but I dont want "someone"...I had that...I want THE one!! I just don't know if I will be able to locate him in this lifetime. I imagine we all have our soul mate but it means we have to sort thru an ... Just Need to Vent... Mon, 16 Mar 2009 03:29:16 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/dating-t64.htm#525 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/dating-t64.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/sooooooooooo-t63.htm RomanceMe I have changed my mind on this. Is this Love? Sat, 20 Dec 2008 04:18:17 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/sooooooooooo-t63.htm#497 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/sooooooooooo-t63.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/unicorns-t55.htm Jane Doe Is anyone happy? I often wonder about this. So many people I know or meet are not. It brings up the question of why I guess. Why are so many unhappy in their current situations. Are they unrealistic? Are the in the wrong place/relationship? Is it not possible for most people to be happy? Do people look for the bad and therefore find unhappiness in any situation? Are people not intended to stay together? Does anyone know? I guess if anyone finds the answer to that- its like the million dollar ... Just Need to Vent... Wed, 21 May 2008 02:46:47 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/unicorns-t55.htm#445 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/unicorns-t55.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-found-a-good-one-f7/i-found-a-good-one-t7.htm GinAndBareIt ]]> I Found a Good One! Fri, 21 Dec 2007 05:12:35 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-found-a-good-one-f7/i-found-a-good-one-t7.htm#8 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-found-a-good-one-f7/i-found-a-good-one-t7.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/how-do-you-know-t58.htm RomanceMe I wonder how you can tell when you meet the right person? Everyone says "you'll know" but the divorce rate disputes that. So, how do you know? And do you think people go into a relationship knowing deep down it isn't right but they ignore that inner voice telling them that? Or do they really believe they have found love this time around and simply get fooled. Is this Love? Fri, 28 Nov 2008 00:24:09 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/how-do-you-know-t58.htm#485 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/how-do-you-know-t58.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/hoping-t60.htm GinAndBareIt I just keep hoping for things to get better for me. It's not like it's all bad here- but it's not good either. I feel like I am starving for love. I get NO affection here and it sometimes actually physically hurts. I'm starving for it sometimes. Other times I'm fine- I am learning (I hope) to be a tougher person. I am making progress on things to change things. I know no matter what it will be hard- I will be lonely and sad- there will be tears- but I have to get in a place where I am open to ... Is this Love? Wed, 03 Dec 2008 04:48:34 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/hoping-t60.htm#487 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/hoping-t60.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-think-i-m-ready-t61.htm GinAndBareIt I think I am now ready to make a change in my life. Its been too long- I've hoped it would get better or that I could just grow to accept it as it is- but thats just not enough living for me. I will never be able to make my other half happy- and he will never be able to make me happy- it has finally sunk into my thick head. I have an exit strategy planned- hope it goes as planned. Just Need to Vent... Sat, 06 Dec 2008 22:18:33 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-think-i-m-ready-t61.htm#488 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-think-i-m-ready-t61.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/question-t62.htm EngineGirl22 Has anyone actually cut someone from their life and not feel at all bad about it? It can be anyone. Friend, lover, bump buddy, whatever. I am learning that in life you have real relationships and ones that fill your empty time. It is so sad to come to the realization that what you thought was a real relationship was someone filling their empty time. Then you have to step back and decide if you want to cut the bullshit, dead weight, or just remain a door mat. Someone please shed some light ... Just Need to Vent... Thu, 11 Dec 2008 06:02:07 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/question-t62.htm#489 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/question-t62.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/epiphany-t59.htm RomanceMe I just had one. I thought I always picked the wrong guys because I never had better ones to choose from. I just now realized that is not the case. The simple fact is when I strectch my memory beyond the obvious, I remember the chances I had to make what was probably a better choice than I made. I had a chance with men that were more right for me, yet I went the other way. I didn't realize I was doing this until now. Makes me realize how much I am responsible for my circumstances. It is easier ... Just Need to Vent... Sun, 30 Nov 2008 15:36:01 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/epiphany-t59.htm#486 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/epiphany-t59.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/nothing-much-t57.htm GinAndBareIt I guess I dont really have a lot of things to talk about. I decided to try and write here as often as I can and use this as the "blog" I am too lazy to start. If you don't like reading boring ramblings...skip this thread I guess First of all, things in my life are the same and different. They are the same in that I am still in the same rut I have been in. My situation is not awful, but it's not great either. It's sort of "middle class" I guess- lots of room to go up ... Just Need to Vent... Mon, 16 Jun 2008 02:34:28 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/nothing-much-t57.htm#457 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/nothing-much-t57.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/sex-t21.htm GinAndBareIt I wonder if maybe people need to think of sex as a privelage of a relationship rather than a right. In the past (like the dark ages) sex was the right of the man. He was entitled to sex with the wife pretty much whenever he wanted. Times have changed- but there is still the expectation that sex is a right in a relationship, but maybe- it shouldnt be. Now I know the hole in this argument is that if you are in a good relationship- there will be sex- but maybe when things arent good- people ... Is this Love? Fri, 04 Jan 2008 20:06:47 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/sex-t21.htm#104 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/sex-t21.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/what-do-you-do-when-things-are-so-mixed-up-t30.htm LonelyGirl I just do not know what to make of my situation. I am with a nice guy. He is nice to me mostly. He doesnt have any serious vices: he makes money, he has a job, a car, a house, etc. He is a good guy. BUT- He doesnt like to have sex. How do you decide what to do? Do I leave because of this? Do I stay and never again have sex? Do I have a fling? Do I learn better "self-help" techniques? I like him- he is a good guy- but this is an issue. WHAT DO I DO? Just Need to Vent... Tue, 22 Jan 2008 03:27:31 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/what-do-you-do-when-things-are-so-mixed-up-t30.htm#232 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/what-do-you-do-when-things-are-so-mixed-up-t30.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/walmart-is-to-blame-for-divorce-t22.htm MissBehav'n Ok...now I know this really is not totally true but think about it this way... Walmart has made it really easy to have a "just replace it" mentality. It is cheaper to throw out a broken printer andbuy a new one than to have one repaired. It is cheaper to throw out a lawn mower and buy a new one there. Hell, a kids bike can be bought for under $50 there. Not just at walmrt- but in our lives in general- the justreplace it mindset is common. If you don't like something- you get a ... Is this Love? Sun, 06 Jan 2008 00:57:08 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/walmart-is-to-blame-for-divorce-t22.htm#107 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/walmart-is-to-blame-for-divorce-t22.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/just-wanted-to-say-t54.htm Jane Doe
I also wish I could have the best of both lives- the friend life and the love life. Is that possible? Can you have it all?]]> Up Late and Can't Sleep? Tue, 13 May 2008 04:24:45 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/just-wanted-to-say-t54.htm#441 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/just-wanted-to-say-t54.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/yet-again-t56.htm GinAndBareIt
Wow...just what dreams are NOT made if ]]> Just Need to Vent... Sun, 01 Jun 2008 02:04:21 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/yet-again-t56.htm#447 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/yet-again-t56.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/important-qualities-t26.htm GinAndBareIt what things are important to you in a partner- even if you don't have them know. These can be odd ball things you would like in a partner- they don't just have to be important big things- small things matter a lot as well. Is this Love? Sat, 12 Jan 2008 03:00:35 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/important-qualities-t26.htm#148 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/important-qualities-t26.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/it-s-almost-my-anniversary-t53.htm GinAndBareIt of one year with no sex! Imagine that. My other half has never had a big interest in sex- so I sort of left things alone- to see what would happen- and I found out...NOTHING happens! Just Need to Vent... Sat, 26 Apr 2008 03:25:03 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/it-s-almost-my-anniversary-t53.htm#431 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/it-s-almost-my-anniversary-t53.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/sometimes-t52.htm sluttygirl
Here's to good friends that take the time to do this !!!!!]]> Up Late and Can't Sleep? Fri, 28 Mar 2008 02:44:18 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/sometimes-t52.htm#405 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/sometimes-t52.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-don-t-love-him-anymore-t29.htm RunawayTrain
He just called out my name and I cringed and now I have to go see what he wants and it's probably something stupid...something that does not matter to me...something that will make me hate him more.

This has to end.]]> Just Need to Vent... Fri, 18 Jan 2008 02:44:59 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-don-t-love-him-anymore-t29.htm#174 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-don-t-love-him-anymore-t29.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/wallowing-t49.htm Cinderella Well, right now I think I am feeling like wallowing in some self pity! I know it is pathetic, but I guess on occassion it happens. Anyone else in the self pity muck with me? Just Need to Vent... Sun, 23 Mar 2008 02:56:30 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/wallowing-t49.htm#386 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/wallowing-t49.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/the-convent-f4/how-long-do-you-have-to-go-without-sex-to-be-a-born-again-vi-t8.htm LonelyGirl ]]> The Convent Fri, 21 Dec 2007 05:21:47 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/the-convent-f4/how-long-do-you-have-to-go-without-sex-to-be-a-born-again-vi-t8.htm#9 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/the-convent-f4/how-long-do-you-have-to-go-without-sex-to-be-a-born-again-vi-t8.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/wow-t45.htm LonelyGirl I think I might have had an epiphany! I have issues in my relationship. There is no sex. I know others on here have that too-but tonight I was struck with a sad thought. I somewhat accept the no sex thing- I accept my SO doesn't respect what I do-I accept the fact that he finds fault in much of what I do- I even accept he doesnt like what I value most in my life-but tonight I realized that he doesnt have a passion for life. Now I am extreme- I am very, very passionate and do tend to get caught ... Is this Love? Thu, 13 Mar 2008 02:14:24 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/wow-t45.htm#326 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/wow-t45.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/i-just-don-t-know-t48.htm Jane Doe I have a serious issue I have to make a decision on. The hard part is I have NO idea about what I want or the right thing to do in this case. Normally I really do know what I want- if I think hard enough, but in this case, I really do not. I am so totally torn. Has anyone else experienced this? I Need Advice... Sat, 22 Mar 2008 01:09:55 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/i-just-don-t-know-t48.htm#383 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/i-just-don-t-know-t48.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/the-thin-red-line-t51.htm RunawayTrain Recently, a situation occur where a line was crossed...two people who joke and flirt but know VERY little about each other are now at a place where there will NEVER even be a friendship. The guy: An attractive guy who has probably gotten away with a lot in his lifetime just because he is attractive...part owner of a company...married with kids...ex-pro baseball player. Blah blah blah. The girl: Well, it's me. Not used to being looked at as the object of desire...though I sometimes flirt ... Just Need to Vent... Wed, 26 Mar 2008 03:32:15 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/the-thin-red-line-t51.htm#400 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/the-thin-red-line-t51.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/why-is-it-so-hard-t50.htm Jane Doe Why is it so hard to make important decisions? You KNOW what is the right thing to do (deep down at least)...but doing that thing- is super hard! Why is this? Any ideas?]]> Up Late and Can't Sleep? Wed, 26 Mar 2008 02:17:39 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/why-is-it-so-hard-t50.htm#398 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/why-is-it-so-hard-t50.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/song-lyrics-on-your-mind-t34.htm RunawayTrain Sorry by Buck Cherry Oh I had a lot to say was thinking on my time away I missed you and things weren't the same Cause everything inside it never comes out right And when I see you cry it makes me want to die I'm sorry I'm bad, I'm sorry I'm blue, I'm sorry about all things I said to you And I know I can't take it back I love how you kiss, I love all you're sounds, and baby the way you make my world go round And I just wanted to say I'm sorry: This time I think I'm to ... Just Need to Vent... Tue, 05 Feb 2008 02:23:12 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/song-lyrics-on-your-mind-t34.htm#264 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/song-lyrics-on-your-mind-t34.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/lucky-man-t47.htm sluttygirl If only I were not alone tonight...I can tell you...there would be one lucky man in my house Just Need to Vent... Wed, 19 Mar 2008 02:28:07 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/lucky-man-t47.htm#367 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/lucky-man-t47.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/control-t46.htm RunawayTrain
Will I ever have my sense of self back? With that, who am I now?]]> I Need Advice... Sat, 15 Mar 2008 01:28:39 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/control-t46.htm#349 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/control-t46.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/what-makes-for-good-sex-t27.htm GinAndBareIt Just curious as to what others define as good sex. I Need Advice... Wed, 16 Jan 2008 03:00:47 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/what-makes-for-good-sex-t27.htm#151 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/what-makes-for-good-sex-t27.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-found-a-good-one-f7/imagine-this-t44.htm Cinderella So I was looking for things online and I was on Craigslist. Craigslist has everything! I looked in the romance section (well you know...why not??) and I had a freaky thought. Imagine answering one of those online requests, even one that sounded ok, and finding out it was your friend or a relative ,etc. How awful would that be!!!! In thinking, I realize something like this was on a Drew Carey episode a while ago...anyone ever have this happen to them? I Found a Good One! Tue, 11 Mar 2008 04:36:16 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-found-a-good-one-f7/imagine-this-t44.htm#314 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-found-a-good-one-f7/imagine-this-t44.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-think-maybe-t40.htm GinAndBareIt
If I was drunk...and could do whatever I wanted....hmmmm
the imaginings are much better than the reality...sadly ]]> Just Need to Vent... Sun, 24 Feb 2008 04:18:09 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-think-maybe-t40.htm#293 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/i-think-maybe-t40.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/still-fat-t43.htm GinAndBareIt I am about to see the person I THINK I might be attracted to again. The sad things is I am still not skinnier. Now I am not really huge or anything, but I am not thin right now. I want to be, but I guess not enough. It is not like food is forced into my mouth. I obvoisuly eat enough to maintain my current "soft" weight. Anyway, I will see this person again. I just wanted to complain (as if I had no controlvover the matter) that I am not thinner as I promised myself I would be when I ... Just Need to Vent... Tue, 11 Mar 2008 04:08:22 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/still-fat-t43.htm#311 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/still-fat-t43.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/why-do-some-get-a-fairytale-life-and-not-others-t42.htm Cinderella Is this because of luck, fate or ...is it something we can make happen? Just Need to Vent... Wed, 05 Mar 2008 04:23:06 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/why-do-some-get-a-fairytale-life-and-not-others-t42.htm#304 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/why-do-some-get-a-fairytale-life-and-not-others-t42.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/can-you-have-it-all-t35.htm GinAndBareIt I do wonder. My relationship is ok. I am friends with my partner- but there is no passion. I have had passion with others before- but was not always friends with them. My question is- can you have it both ways- or do you always lose out in one area? Is this Love? Mon, 11 Feb 2008 03:20:04 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/can-you-have-it-all-t35.htm#268 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/is-this-love-f3/can-you-have-it-all-t35.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/cosmic-thinking-t41.htm Rufus
Sustain is missing from so many lives today…

Sustain in life, love, work… and happiness.]]> Up Late and Can't Sleep? Sat, 01 Mar 2008 04:44:37 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/cosmic-thinking-t41.htm#298 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/cosmic-thinking-t41.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/want-some-cheese-with-my-whine-t38.htm LonelyGirl I know it is silly- but I really felt like whining. I want it all! I want a guy who is smart, sensitive, likes to shop, can cook, drinks socially, does not smoke, is attractive enough, likes baseball, likes animals, likes movies (will watch a chick flick and not hate it), can be independent but not distant, doesn't play games, is good at sex (does those things...), is adventurous but not reckless, is a good driver (seems silly but I dated a guy who drove so fast I always felt like I was about ... Up Late and Can't Sleep? Thu, 21 Feb 2008 05:09:06 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/want-some-cheese-with-my-whine-t38.htm#286 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/up-late-and-can-t-sleep-f6/want-some-cheese-with-my-whine-t38.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/seduction-of-a-married-man-part-1-t39.htm oldersister The Married Man / Single Woman Syndrome- Dating a Married Man and Losing Yourself in the Process copyright by Ask Oldersister, 2008, www.oldersister.sampasite.com So you are young, single, attractive and no doubt have many eligible men pursuing you. Be ready to cut my head off but I truly believe the problem with most these men is that if they aren't already married, there is probably something wrong with them. Experts claim that there are so many perfectly eligible single guys out ... I Need Advice... Thu, 21 Feb 2008 21:14:59 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/seduction-of-a-married-man-part-1-t39.htm#287 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/seduction-of-a-married-man-part-1-t39.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/signs-he-is-manipulating-you-t37.htm oldersister Signs He is Manipulating You by oldersister on Fri Feb 15, 2008 6:44 pm The Emotional Manipulator www.oldersister.sampasite.com Eight Easy Ways to Spot an Emotional Manipulator - Emotional manipulators get extra marks for subtlety. They can bend and twist and warp but somehow after a period of time they set off the ol’ bullshit meter. An emotional manipulator is smoother. You’ll have to adjust the sensitivity of your bullshit meter to escape unscathed. What is emotional ... I Need Advice... Tue, 19 Feb 2008 06:48:07 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/signs-he-is-manipulating-you-t37.htm#283 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/signs-he-is-manipulating-you-t37.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/welcome-to-lovelifeblues-forums-f1/emotional-manipulators-t36.htm oldersister www.oldersister.sampasite.com Eight Easy Ways to Spot an Emotional Manipulator - Emotional manipulators get extra marks for subtlety. They can bend and twist and warp but somehow after a period of time they set off the ol’ bullshit meter. An emotional manipulator is smoother. You’ll have to adjust the sensitivity of your bullshit meter to escape unscathed. What is emotional manipulation? Well, emotional manipulation is a method of using words, body language and behavior for the ... Welcome To LoveLifeBlues Forums Tue, 19 Feb 2008 06:45:39 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/welcome-to-lovelifeblues-forums-f1/emotional-manipulators-t36.htm#282 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/welcome-to-lovelifeblues-forums-f1/emotional-manipulators-t36.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/guy-question-t33.htm GinAndBareIt
If a girl seems attracted to you in the daytime...and then you went out at night and she was a little tipsy...and she really seemed attracted to you...would you sleep with her if she wanted to sleep with you?]]> I Need Advice... Fri, 01 Feb 2008 04:41:51 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/guy-question-t33.htm#262 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/guy-question-t33.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/is-it-wrong-to-ask-for-more-t32.htm RunawayTrain ...from someone? Or should things just evolve the way they will at their own pace...even if I don't like it. I Need Advice... Thu, 31 Jan 2008 01:16:59 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/is-it-wrong-to-ask-for-more-t32.htm#252 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/is-it-wrong-to-ask-for-more-t32.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enough-t31.htm RunawayTrain Anyone...anyone... I Need Advice... Fri, 25 Jan 2008 02:35:35 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enough-t31.htm#239 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/i-need-advice-f8/how-do-you-know-when-enough-is-enough-t31.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/just-wanna-complain-t25.htm MissBehav'n I don't really have anything specific to complain about- just felt like a general whine-fest I don't have anything specific thats bothering me, just kind of crabby I guess. I spoke with one friend today who is a guy and though normally I don't let his abruptness bother me, today it did. I felt like he feels too important to be polite. Now I know this is silly, I'm not trying to make sense, just complaining in general. I wish he could learn how to give people "their" time. When ... Just Need to Vent... Thu, 10 Jan 2008 02:16:07 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/just-wanna-complain-t25.htm#139 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/just-need-to-vent-f2/just-wanna-complain-t25.htm http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/welcome-to-lovelifeblues-forums-f1/is-it-ever-okay-t28.htm MsConduct to cheat? Welcome To LoveLifeBlues Forums Thu, 17 Jan 2008 04:22:41 GMT http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/welcome-to-lovelifeblues-forums-f1/is-it-ever-okay-t28.htm#170 http://lovelife-blues.forumotion.com/welcome-to-lovelifeblues-forums-f1/is-it-ever-okay-t28.htm